Friday, September 5, 2014

September 5: Evolution of Language

Aria asked me what twerking was. I replied that I had no idea, and I truly don’t. And not only that, but I have no interest to learn what it is. Zero. Zip. Zilch.

It got me thinking about all the new words being added to the dictionary. Here are a smattering of newly recognized words from 2013:

• apols, pl. n. (informal): apologies.
• BYOD, n.: abbreviation of ‘bring your own device’: the practice of allowing the employees of an organization to use their own computers, smartphones, or other devices for work purposes.
• derp, exclam. & n. (informal): (used as a substitute for) speech regarded as meaningless or stupid, or to comment on a foolish or stupid action.’
• food baby, n.: a protruding stomach caused by eating a large quantity of food and supposedly resembling that of a woman in the early stages of pregnancy.
• grats, pl. n. (informal): congratulations. • guac, n.: guacamole
• jorts, pl. n.: denim shorts.
• twerk, v.: dance to popular music in a sexually provocative manner involving thrusting hip movements and a low, squatting stance.
• vom, v. & n. (informal): (be) sick; vomit.

Sadly, I now know what twerking is, and I still don’t care. Do you sense a theme in the above list? We are evolving into a lazy, abbreviating, sex-obsessed populace.

I was reflecting on how beautiful language used to be. Speeches were awe-inspiring when given by leaders. The Gettysburg Address was incredibly short, delivered in just over two minutes in 1863 and yet we all know, “Four score and seven years ago our fathers brought forth on this continent a new nation, conceived in liberty, and dedicated to the proposition that all men are created equal.” which was Lincoln’s reference to the Declaration of Independence. He didn’t just say “So in 1773…”.

Movies had vernacular that required contemplation. Watch A Philadelphia Story. Fall in love with Katherine Hepburn. It’s ok – she’s worth the fall. Please note the men aren’t self-effacing fools either. Cary and Jimmy both hold their own against her.

Songs had long, slow, musical introductions that lasted minutes before a word was sung. Louis Armstrong playing the trumpet. Me not caring a wink if singing would happen or if the jazz would just continue to drip from my finger tips. When the words came, they embodied romance. Heart thumping - wow you see into the deep dark chocolate corners of my soul and know just what I need - romance.

We used our words. We used them well. Words had value. Words were prized.

If I could add words to the dictionary, they would be words of love. “Love” is such an overused term, and it has so many meanings, the value is lost in the frequent flyer miles it receives.

The ancient Greeks had four to six words for love, depending whom you ask.

Eros: Sexual passion.
Philia: Friendship.
Ludus: Playful love.
Agape: Love for everyone.
Pragma: Longstanding love.
Philautia: Love of self.

For me, love has been spiritual, practical, physical, sexual, maternal, intellectual, emotional, primal, unrequited, enduring, unconditional, brief, adoring, my everything.

And yet we have this one little four-lettered word to express that which I believe is at the center of it all. Our reason for being.

What feelings, experiences, beliefs can you not fully express because your language inhibits you? What word would please you as it rolled from your tongue across your lips? 

Surely we aren’t complete as a society now that “twerking” is here to stay?  

OMG.





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